I dated a woman I work four years our minds we soul mates A year a half ago she broke off I never out real reasons After we broke up she still tell me she loved me we soul mates course time she dating another a married it's worse college guy stalked her--her words mine Now course she'll claim he just observing me She still dating him He still married He lives a few hours drive away it's easy him hide fact he hasn't filed divorce papers yet fact I know he his wife just refinanced house yet my girlfriend convinced he'll marry her one day But wait there's day she asks me lunch every day calls me babe touches me affectionately talks vacations together When I'm travel she calls once twice a day her request we're seeing a therapist resolve our trust issues reconcile It's difficult say my hands clean here I truly concerned Everything I've read suggests there nothing pain heartache down road her I've worked hard change my shortcomings therapy reading action If things right I begin anew her I've tried approach moving seeing other women She knows enough jealous women effect How I approach without blowing my chances Dieter Dieter a few years ago when we guests a radio call-in show Los Angeles a called asked his soul mate He knew she affair he said because he had hired a private detective evidence If a soul mate call a couple love other exclusion others What really a woman finds benefit letting fantasize her she tries land another ready accept our answer addiction The only cure addiction remove yourself substance addicted environment addiction flourishes Wayne & Tamara Parenthood Recently my wife announced time us a decision a baby announcement blind-sided me because I always perfectly clear matter I only want kids sautéed correctly All my friends my relatives know my aversion children reasons behind my feelings varied never a grey area me My wife other hand says my future involves a family
implying uncertain terms she going children without me This seems irreconcilable situation thoughts Chad Chad everyone makes a good parent People recognize early shouldn't children perfectly clear before wedding thought she accepted fact Your wife a right children a she knew never wanted a parent dark humour expresses seriousness convictions Since know want children responsibility sure don't father a child Your wife right time a decision issue future together Wayne & Tamara Authors columnists Wayne Tamara Mitchell can reached www.WayneAndTamara.com Send letters to: Direct Answers PO Box 964 Springfield MO 65801 e-mail: DirectAnswers@WayneAndTamara.com | 