Direct Answers Wayne Tamara Game-Set-Match I don't know whether call jealousy insecurity My husband I married almost 30 years Last year my husband's surprise birthday party one my friends asked a certain woman room When I asked why she said She husband making eye contact night he seems paying her a lot attention there I started watching behavior My husband participates a sport woman's husband times we together time I noticed more eye contact Just sure I imaging things I asked my sister She thought looks gave other something might going Late one evening I confronted my husband He replied Don't ridiculous
He said he loves me goes participate sport He furious I told him I loved him too I also said my first warning him next her thereafter her husband He said something going her side. At next sporting event woman avoided me plague she scared death me Obviously someone told her something When I asked my husband he had he said Now even though I did nothing wrong I very uncomfortable around woman I three decades invested marriage love dearly Still hard get past friends woman again. Helene Helene didn't smell perfume husband's shirt see lipstick his collar a woman publicly flirting husband Possibly she flirts herself feel good real desire behind when word got out she stopped. You did three things let circle friends know observant woman defends her territory let husband know confront issue head anything going happen dumped water embers. Mission accomplished Now key drop situation stopped let go let go husband may even take a compliment let him know how much desire him. With other woman don't need her enemy don't need her friend Talk her any other slight acquaintance Hold head up high a confident married woman allow anyone sneak around behind her back. Wayne & Tamara Her Proposal I a 21-year-old female a committed relationship a I love want marry We plan live together when I go graduate school My dad says he can't imagine me finding a sweeter better loves me much. Now I'm worried whole living together thing because studies say living together leads divorce I don't want lose him His dad concerned he tied down we kids I don't see happening anytime soon I feel ready marry now I don't want lose him. Daryl Daryl even believe research living together valid need realize marriage does prevent divorce abuse infidelity unhappiness afraid moving together stop a wedding then don't live him want marry him because think lose him then he isn't yours Wayne & Tamara Authors columnists Wayne Tamara Mitchell can reached www.WayneAndTamara.com. Send letters to: Direct Answers PO Box 964 Springfield MO 65801 email: DirectAnswers@WayneAndTamara.com | 